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	<title>Comments on: Wealth Tip:  Learn the Art of Delayed Gratification</title>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 05:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Saver Queen -- The &quot;Instant Mentality&quot; has been growing in N.America for decades (when were instant mashed potatoes invented?!). It&#039;s instant everything. No one wants to work or labour or toil or wait for anything. Watch people get all antsy and upset when their internet takes more than 3 seconds to load! 

It can really screw people up. I&#039;ll use myself as an example. I grew up in the 80&#039;s with the &quot;Me Generation&quot; (aka Baby Boomer) controlling the &quot;Me Decade&quot;. I was bombarded and saturated with gross amounts commercialism and overwhelming materialism -- that&#039;s the way I thought life was, I didn&#039;t know any different! Even the slogan for the 80&#039;s (and 90&#039;s) won an Academy Award: &quot;Greed is good!&quot; ~ Gordon Gekko.   

There I am, all primed to rake in the easy .com money and make a fortune in anything I bet on...but by the time I have any kind of substantial money to invest what happens? POP! POP! POP! POP!  (how many bubbles were there in the last 8 years?). 

Now my brain, raised and wired by the greed and over-consumption of the 80&#039;s, doesn&#039;t know what to do! But seriously....good thing I&#039;m a saver by nature. 

On a similar vein, I was talking with a friend of mine about why there hasn&#039;t been any protests etc in the U.S. in response to the sketchy activities the banks and government have been up to (as opposed to the month-old protests taking place in Iceland). He had a good insight. If you constantly beat a person down eventually they will break and revolt (or just lay down and die); but...if you give a person everything and anything they want and need, with very little or no effort on their part, then you subdue their spirit and dull their brains (like a fattened cow). So when things do start going up in flames, the zombies just sit and watch the show. A very bad side effect of &#039;Instant&#039;. 

We haven&#039;t really had to suffer or compete or really, really work to get anything in maybe the last 50 years. Sure, life is supposed to get easier, I guess, but look what happens when we get that life handed to us.

On the flip side of things, massive fortunes CAN be made literally over night, but not by mere chance, luck, or line of credit. It usually has to be backed up by a life time of study and experience (e.g. George Soros made a BILLION dollars in one day trading the British Pound; Buffet made a BILLION dollars when Proctor &amp; Gamble bought out Gillette; Jed Clampett made millions from bubbling crude). 

&quot;Good things come NOT to those who wait, but to those who make good things happen.&quot; ~ Me</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Saver Queen &#8212; The &#8220;Instant Mentality&#8221; has been growing in N.America for decades (when were instant mashed potatoes invented?!). It&#8217;s instant everything. No one wants to work or labour or toil or wait for anything. Watch people get all antsy and upset when their internet takes more than 3 seconds to load! </p>
<p>It can really screw people up. I&#8217;ll use myself as an example. I grew up in the 80&#8217;s with the &#8220;Me Generation&#8221; (aka Baby Boomer) controlling the &#8220;Me Decade&#8221;. I was bombarded and saturated with gross amounts commercialism and overwhelming materialism &#8212; that&#8217;s the way I thought life was, I didn&#8217;t know any different! Even the slogan for the 80&#8217;s (and 90&#8217;s) won an Academy Award: &#8220;Greed is good!&#8221; ~ Gordon Gekko.   </p>
<p>There I am, all primed to rake in the easy .com money and make a fortune in anything I bet on&#8230;but by the time I have any kind of substantial money to invest what happens? POP! POP! POP! POP!  (how many bubbles were there in the last 8 years?). </p>
<p>Now my brain, raised and wired by the greed and over-consumption of the 80&#8217;s, doesn&#8217;t know what to do! But seriously&#8230;.good thing I&#8217;m a saver by nature. </p>
<p>On a similar vein, I was talking with a friend of mine about why there hasn&#8217;t been any protests etc in the U.S. in response to the sketchy activities the banks and government have been up to (as opposed to the month-old protests taking place in Iceland). He had a good insight. If you constantly beat a person down eventually they will break and revolt (or just lay down and die); but&#8230;if you give a person everything and anything they want and need, with very little or no effort on their part, then you subdue their spirit and dull their brains (like a fattened cow). So when things do start going up in flames, the zombies just sit and watch the show. A very bad side effect of &#8216;Instant&#8217;. </p>
<p>We haven&#8217;t really had to suffer or compete or really, really work to get anything in maybe the last 50 years. Sure, life is supposed to get easier, I guess, but look what happens when we get that life handed to us.</p>
<p>On the flip side of things, massive fortunes CAN be made literally over night, but not by mere chance, luck, or line of credit. It usually has to be backed up by a life time of study and experience (e.g. George Soros made a BILLION dollars in one day trading the British Pound; Buffet made a BILLION dollars when Proctor &amp; Gamble bought out Gillette; Jed Clampett made millions from bubbling crude). </p>
<p>&#8220;Good things come NOT to those who wait, but to those who make good things happen.&#8221; ~ Me</p>
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		<title>By: Saver Queen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Saver Queen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 02:36:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are quite right that building wealth requires living below your means, plain and simple, and this depends on the ability to delay gratification. Scott, you laugh as though it&#039;s obvious and in many ways it is, but unfortunately, the &quot;now&quot; mentality is so heavily perpetuated that many people buy into the philosophy that they need - and deserve to have - everything they want right NOW.  Delayed gratification is not really encouraged.  I&#039;m hoping that more and more people will come to learn that delayed gratification is necessary for a peaceful life and can provide immense satisfaction.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are quite right that building wealth requires living below your means, plain and simple, and this depends on the ability to delay gratification. Scott, you laugh as though it&#8217;s obvious and in many ways it is, but unfortunately, the &#8220;now&#8221; mentality is so heavily perpetuated that many people buy into the philosophy that they need &#8211; and deserve to have &#8211; everything they want right NOW.  Delayed gratification is not really encouraged.  I&#8217;m hoping that more and more people will come to learn that delayed gratification is necessary for a peaceful life and can provide immense satisfaction.</p>
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		<title>By: Nurseb911</title>
		<link>http://www.milliondollarjourney.com/wealth-tip-learn-the-art-of-delayed-gratification.htm/comment-page-1#comment-60844</link>
		<dc:creator>Nurseb911</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 00:05:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We do live in a world seeking instant gratification, but it obviously comes at a cost.  I suffer from it every so often, but the majority of the time I can look to the long-term and practice patience.
This is one of those topics that defines an individual&#039;s ability to achieve financial freedom early in life.  If its only a want vs. a need than you have to ask yourself what financial cost you&#039;re taking in order to receive that gratification now vs. later.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We do live in a world seeking instant gratification, but it obviously comes at a cost.  I suffer from it every so often, but the majority of the time I can look to the long-term and practice patience.<br />
This is one of those topics that defines an individual&#8217;s ability to achieve financial freedom early in life.  If its only a want vs. a need than you have to ask yourself what financial cost you&#8217;re taking in order to receive that gratification now vs. later.</p>
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		<title>By: accelerated mortgage program</title>
		<link>http://www.milliondollarjourney.com/wealth-tip-learn-the-art-of-delayed-gratification.htm/comment-page-1#comment-60828</link>
		<dc:creator>accelerated mortgage program</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 21:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dont spend it if you dont got it! simple as that. we must live within our means if we are to escape the bondage of debt.
-jack</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dont spend it if you dont got it! simple as that. we must live within our means if we are to escape the bondage of debt.<br />
-jack</p>
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		<title>By: Andy @ Retire at 40</title>
		<link>http://www.milliondollarjourney.com/wealth-tip-learn-the-art-of-delayed-gratification.htm/comment-page-1#comment-60818</link>
		<dc:creator>Andy @ Retire at 40</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 19:28:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that&#039;s the one thing I have learned recently about personal finance and saving for retirement, that it is a &lt;a href=&quot;http://retire-at-40.blogspot.com/2008/10/long-slow-road-to-financial.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;long and slow journey&lt;/a&gt; towards that goal.

The funny thing is, by realising this and doing something about it, that journey will likely take less time!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that&#8217;s the one thing I have learned recently about personal finance and saving for retirement, that it is a <a href="http://retire-at-40.blogspot.com/2008/10/long-slow-road-to-financial.html" rel="nofollow">long and slow journey</a> towards that goal.</p>
<p>The funny thing is, by realising this and doing something about it, that journey will likely take less time!</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 19:09:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s not only about delayed gratification though. Finding new ways to save is helpful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s not only about delayed gratification though. Finding new ways to save is helpful.</p>
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		<title>By: Donny Gamble</title>
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		<dc:creator>Donny Gamble</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 16:43:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To achieve the success that you wish to achieve, will take a lot of time and dedication.  The problem with most people who are trying to become successful, they expect everything to happen to fast.  It takes time</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To achieve the success that you wish to achieve, will take a lot of time and dedication.  The problem with most people who are trying to become successful, they expect everything to happen to fast.  It takes time</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
		<link>http://www.milliondollarjourney.com/wealth-tip-learn-the-art-of-delayed-gratification.htm/comment-page-1#comment-60802</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 15:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ooohhh! Now I get it!

(sorry but I just had to!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ooohhh! Now I get it!</p>
<p>(sorry but I just had to!)</p>
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		<title>By: Dividend Growth Investor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dividend Growth Investor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 14:21:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I see the same instant gratification thing when it comes to dividend investing. People simply want to purchase stocks with the highest current yields, despite the fact that the highest current yielders are less likely to yield the most on your investment in future.

Stocks with consistent dividend growth like JNJ, MCD and a plethora of others are always ridiculed for their low yields. Of course if you could wait one decade or more then your yield on cost does rise to the double digits..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I see the same instant gratification thing when it comes to dividend investing. People simply want to purchase stocks with the highest current yields, despite the fact that the highest current yielders are less likely to yield the most on your investment in future.</p>
<p>Stocks with consistent dividend growth like JNJ, MCD and a plethora of others are always ridiculed for their low yields. Of course if you could wait one decade or more then your yield on cost does rise to the double digits..</p>
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		<title>By: moneygardener</title>
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		<dc:creator>moneygardener</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 13:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This wealth tip hits the nail on the head. A lot of getting ahead financially relies on this type of theme...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This wealth tip hits the nail on the head. A lot of getting ahead financially relies on this type of theme&#8230;</p>
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